I am so happy to see such a discussion! I've just returned from another wonderful trip to Italy. In order to do the European travel I enjoy, two or three times a year I began offering small group tours (average-8 guests) over 20 years ago. (To some of you who know me, this is quite redundant, I know). It's been a great learning experience about people, places and whatever else you might imagine! It's not my career or full-time gig so I can spend the amount of time I want on each tour to craft it the way it's most enjoyable for me and for each group.
Groups are interesting in that each one, whether the guests know each other beforehand or not, seem to create its own personality. And depending on how I "craft" the week the group responds in many different ways just as the responses in this discussion have been presented.
One thing I try to do is learn about the guests ahead of time, to make sure their expectations will mostly be met. (It helps that I'm a retired social worker/counselor so I can sometimes read between the lines). I've found that more seasoned travelers have a much more relaxed attitude about being with a group and usually enjoy the tour differently than new travelers who might have "pictures in their minds" about how things ought to be.
I am very satisfied and excited about the last tour I co-lead with Erica Jarman of Saport-e-Saperi. Erica asked me to assist her on her 10 day Tastes & Textiles tour: Woad & Wool. Because Erica lives in the Garfagnana area of Tuscany she has a deep knowledge through many years of networking, of the less traveled, lesser known artisan hamlets tucked away in Tuscany, Le Marche and Umbria. We had authentic events and adventures every day with a group of very seasoned travelers, some weavers and knitters, with great knowledge of textiles and the history. But each one of our guests ended every day with compliments of the day's activities. We traveled into remote villages and hamlets where not a word of English was spoken and Erica was able to convey with expert translation how to do the activities and the interesting historical background accompanying them. The Italian artisans were excited to share their own knowledge and generous with their time and talents because of our group's genuine interest.
To her credit Erica spends an enormous amount of time and energy creating each day of each tour on a full-time basis with great care to each detail. She also, like any good guide would do, spends time before each tour researching and experiencing the activities before choosing what will be included on a tour. In fact, two years before this latest tour she invited me on a week-long "research" trip so we could test out where to stay, eat and what activities we liked. Quite a few did not make the cut!
So, in my own estimation it is, as always, just a reflection of one's own projected interest in something that makes it deep or valuable. If you are moved to try a guided tour that piques your interest I only suggest you do so with an expert, such as Erica and you will hardly be disappointed.
Ciao,
Cheryl
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